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A few weeks ago I was honored to receive an advanced copy of “[Clutterfree with Kids][1]” by Joshua Becker for review. One of the things I appreciate most about Joshua’s writing and articles is that he’s what I consider a “normal” minimalist in that he owns a house, has kids, and has a job. In other words, he’s just like you and me – only he and his family have chosen to live a life of less so that they may appreciate it more. Even better, he rightfully acknowledges that everyone’s brand of minimalism is different.
Regarding [the book][1], I’ll say that if you’ve read one book on minimalism you’ve read them all and this is not a huge exception to the rule, but if you have not this is a great place to start if you consider yourself to be a “normal” person and are interested in how living a life of less can give you more.
I think the key if you’re married is that you have to get your spouse on-board. Otherwise, don’t expect to have a truly “clutterfree” life (not that it’s really even possible with kids). I think the most you can really hope for is a more organized chaos. Making intentional choices like limiting TV or Internet time. Choosing to eat together as a family. Choosing your activities more deliberately. Choosing to travel with less so that you experience more.
To hit on some of the high points, these were a few of my main take-aways…
- Minimalism is the intentional promotion of the things we most value and the removal of everything that distracts us from it <- Read that again
- Start with small victories. Don’t tackle the hard things first.
- Owning less allows us to own higher quality items.
- Consider the true cost of your purchases – time, maintenance, cleaning
- Less is different than none.
- There is more joy to be found in owning less then can ever be found in organizing more.
- Organizing more never addresses the underlying problem.
- It is far better to de-own than to declutter.
- Intentionally or unintentionally we are all minimizing something.
- Gift giving: take time to let the fads show themselves then purge without concern. Conversely don’t force your ideas on others.
- Compare downward – many people with less “stuff” are actually happier.
Bottom line, for a couple bucks and a few hours of your time, there are much worse things you could be doing, and on the bright side, it just may change your life. Can’t go wrong with that.
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What do you think?
PS: Thanks again Joshua for allowing me to preview the book. I read every word, and it was a good refresher.[1]: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00HYNJKCU?ie=UTF8&tag=firenice